Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Real Teen Issues


C. here. So, I was watching an edited version of the first three episodes with my dad, psychiatrist Dr. C, and he brought up the point that the kids of Prep School Blues might not be the best role models. In his words, Larsen is "a sociopath bringing down Jack", while Gabrielle seems to be a...well let's not go into those terms. I mean look that these teenagers: smoking cigarettes (and other things), consuming alcohol, engaging in sexual behavior, you know the drill. So just to put any younger viewers (and their parents) at ease, I should remind you all that teen soaps are just a fantasy. While certain problems may seem glamorous in fiction, lots of real life teens face discrimination, substance abuse and the consequences of sex every day.

Here's some resources for anyone facing problems like the characters in Prep School Blues:

Jack has to deal with his homosexuality, something not always accepted in certain more repressive communities. This can be very hard especially for kids and teens. But if you are facing discrimination for being gay, you are not alone. The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network works to bring respect and tolerance to young people across America. And there are plenty of other resources such as The Gay Youth Corner and organizations like OutProud for LGBT youth. For those questioning their sexuality, this great essay discusses the range of homosexual behavior from experimentation to sexual identity.

Larsen abuses several substances on a regular basis including alcohol, tobacco and marijuana. While this may seem cool, drug use can be very dangerous, especially for young people who don't have all the facts. For more information, visit the National Institute on Drug Abuse for Teens and The Partership for Drug Free America.

Gabrielle enjoys the attentions of boys around school, but actually having sex is a serious business. If you plan to have sex, know the facts first. One out of three girls who has unprotected sex will become pregnant, even if they only do it once. Planned Parenthood offers details on contraception and options for unwanted pregancies. The only 100% sure way to prevent pregnancy is to practice abstinence.

Edgar finds himself sexually attracted to both boys and girls. Even sexual intercourse between two males is not without it's risks. Whether straight, gay or bisexual, all sexually active people run the risk of contracting many sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and AIDS. The Center of Disease Control and Prevention provides a wealth of information on these potentially deadly illnesses. If you think you or someone you know may be at risk for STDS, you can find a testing center near you through with the National HIV and STD Testing Resources.

Fareed suffers from the illness known as depression. If left untreated, this can lead to extreme behavior, even suicide. The Trevor Project offers a round-the-clock helpline for suicidal teens. You can learn more about the symptoms of depression at Suicide Awareness Voices of Education. Problems at home can make teens feel they have no where to turn. Every year thousands of children are abused by family members and so-called friends. The National Center for Victims of Crime has excellent information and resources for victims of abuse and those who want to help.

Rachel is a driven and independent girl focused on her schooling. Dedication to academics and a good education can make a difference in anyone's future. Schools in the USA can help you find out what college is right for you, while College Board features tools to help you compete in the application process.

High school can be a rough time and the best way to get through it is to be informed.

There, I am SO responsible right now.

1 comment:

::beancakes:: said...

wow daddy conner is on the prowl... very serious post, very GOOD post. I think it's important for people to be aware of these issues and to also know that there are places they can go to get help.

-a.

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